My relationship with HIM began as an intoxicating level of attention like nothing I had ever experienced. HE proved to be masterful at using “love bombing” and swept me off my feet. “and then drop you off a cliff. But the initial seduction is so strong that when things do…
August 30, 2026
My relationship with HIM began as an intoxicating level of attention like nothing I had ever experienced. HE proved to be masterful at using “love bombing” and swept me off my feet. “and then drop you off a cliff. But the initial seduction is so strong that when things do…
August 27, 2026
Navigating the Path to Healing Navigating the complexities of a relationship with someone exhibiting Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) traits requires specialized guidance and emotional validation. Professional narcissistic personality disorder support offers a safe space to deconstruct manipulative patterns and rebuild self-esteem. Experts emphasize that healing begins with understanding the psychological…
August 19, 2026
A few years ago I FOUND MY BEACH – LITERALLY – where I again found my voice in my journal entries – The DIVORCE PAPERS deserves a read, most likely not what you expect! FROM MY BEACH Journal: Today, October 27, 2025 I arrived back at my beach refuge last evening. One of my first activities was to empty all of HIS things from the closets, drawers, and…
August 4, 2026
If you’ve finally left your marriage, you may be navigating a complex mix of relief, grief, and uncertainty. Understanding the dynamics of narcissist vs super empath in those early days helps you make sense of what happened and begin the work of reclaiming who you are—on your terms. Recognize What…
July 20, 2026
A quiet erosion of myself, a gap broadening between who I was and how I presented myself – I did not know the person I had become around HIM Over many years with HIM, there were countless outward and inward conflicts. Looking back, I see how often I chose to…
July 6, 2026
Deciding to end a marriage is one of the most difficult choices a person can ever make. It takes tremendous courage to acknowledge that a relationship is no longer serving your well-being. When I finally left my marriage, I realized that the journey toward healing starts with a single, brave…
June 16, 2026
In the realm of personality dynamics, the contrast between the narcissist vs super empath is both fascinating and complex. A narcissist typically exhibits traits of self-centeredness, entitlement, and a lack of empathy, often prioritizing their own needs over those of others. They thrive on admiration and may manipulate those around…
May 25, 2026
OUR AGREEMENT(s) MEANT NOTHING TO HIM!! From my journal dated ________________________ Today was, simply stated, a most awful day. It all started over a year ago. HE and I had agreed that the beach condo was what we wanted. He had eyes on this location for two years and a…
May 20, 2026
SO, WHAT ABOUT … BOUNDARIES sound defensive at the onset, but when I learned about establishing boundaries I found them to be OFFENSIVE! My first venture into understanding and establishing boundaries was when I spoke with the Pastor at my new church. I had been attending a Greek Orthodox Church…
May 1, 2026
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Dealing with a Narcissist
Dealing with a narcissist has been one of the most challenging and defining experiences of my life. At The Narcissist and the Empath, I share raw, unfiltered stories of life entangled with a person with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD )—this isn’t a traditional guide. It’s my autobiography: real life, real struggles, and, ultimately, real growth.
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Life with someone exhibiting NPD left scars that were both emotional and invisible. But as Frank Sinatra famously said, “The best revenge is massive success.” This blog is my story of reclaiming myself, finding healing, and stepping back into the light after years of manipulation.
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My relationship with HIM began as an intoxicating level of attention like nothing I had ever experienced. HE proved to be masterful at using “love bombing” and swept me off my feet. “and then drop you off a cliff. But the initial seduction is so strong that when things do…
August 30, 2026
My relationship with HIM began as an intoxicating level of attention like nothing I had ever experienced. HE proved to be masterful at using “love bombing” and swept me off my feet. “and then drop you off a cliff. But the initial seduction is so strong that when things do…
August 27, 2026
Navigating the Path to Healing Navigating the complexities of a relationship with someone exhibiting Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) traits requires specialized guidance and emotional validation. Professional narcissistic personality disorder support offers a safe space to deconstruct manipulative patterns and rebuild self-esteem. Experts emphasize that healing begins with understanding the psychological…
August 19, 2026
A few years ago I FOUND MY BEACH – LITERALLY – where I again found my voice in my journal entries – The DIVORCE PAPERS deserves a read, most likely not what you expect! FROM MY BEACH Journal: Today, October 27, 2025 I arrived back at my beach refuge last evening. One of my first activities was to empty all of HIS things from the closets, drawers, and…
August 4, 2026
If you’ve finally left your marriage, you may be navigating a complex mix of relief, grief, and uncertainty. Understanding the dynamics of narcissist vs super empath in those early days helps you make sense of what happened and begin the work of reclaiming who you are—on your terms. Recognize What…
July 20, 2026
A quiet erosion of myself, a gap broadening between who I was and how I presented myself – I did not know the person I had become around HIM Over many years with HIM, there were countless outward and inward conflicts. Looking back, I see how often I chose to…
July 6, 2026
Deciding to end a marriage is one of the most difficult choices a person can ever make. It takes tremendous courage to acknowledge that a relationship is no longer serving your well-being. When I finally left my marriage, I realized that the journey toward healing starts with a single, brave…
June 16, 2026
In the realm of personality dynamics, the contrast between the narcissist vs super empath is both fascinating and complex. A narcissist typically exhibits traits of self-centeredness, entitlement, and a lack of empathy, often prioritizing their own needs over those of others. They thrive on admiration and may manipulate those around…
May 25, 2026
OUR AGREEMENT(s) MEANT NOTHING TO HIM!! From my journal dated ________________________ Today was, simply stated, a most awful day. It all started over a year ago. HE and I had agreed that the beach condo was what we wanted. He had eyes on this location for two years and a…
May 20, 2026
SO, WHAT ABOUT … BOUNDARIES sound defensive at the onset, but when I learned about establishing boundaries I found them to be OFFENSIVE! My first venture into understanding and establishing boundaries was when I spoke with the Pastor at my new church. I had been attending a Greek Orthodox Church…
May 1, 2026