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In the realm of personality dynamics, the contrast between the narcissist vs super empath is both fascinating and complex. A narcissist typically exhibits traits of self-centeredness, entitlement, and a lack…

OUR AGREEMENT(s)    MEANT NOTHING TO HIM!! From my journal dated    ________________________ Today was, simply stated, a most awful day.  It all started over a year ago.   HE and I had…

SO, WHAT ABOUT … BOUNDARIES sound defensive at the onset, but when I learned about establishing boundaries I found them to be OFFENSIVE! My first venture into understanding and establishing…

MOOD SWINGS … and MORE My first Christmas with HIM!    Growing up, I lived very close to our neighborhood church—my world revolved around school, friends nearby, and church activities. People…

Once aware that I was, indeed, in a very toxic relationship, I struggled to understand how I could have remained there for 50 years.   I received a video link from a long – time friend, yes, my friend that I shunned, the friend I…

The Narcissist and the Empath   –   “Beauty (Victim) and The Beast  (a REAL BEAST)“ Why this title?  The term Narcissist comes from the Greek God, Narcissus  Legacy of Narcissus  The story of Narcissus…

YES, I knew him from the start.  It was not like others’ situations, young women I’ve heard from who had the perfect dating time, the wonderful love of their life, the perfect, caring,…

I finally walked out!    Finally left the pretend life I lived for 50 years!     _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________  HE claims that I left because I am psychotic,  need meds,   am experiencing dementia, ( I…